diff --git a/src/main.rs b/src/main.rs
index 7cd5611..cebab39 100644
--- a/src/main.rs
+++ b/src/main.rs
@@ -815,12 +815,10 @@ async fn get_convo_for_members(
     RawQuery(query): RawQuery,
 ) -> Result<Json<GetConvoResp>, (StatusCode, Json<ErrorResp>)> {
     let did = require_auth(&headers)?;
-    let members = parse_members_query(&query);
+    let mut members = parse_members_query(&query);
+    // Auto-add caller if not in members list (PDS proxy may not include caller)
     if !members.contains(&did) {
-        return Err((StatusCode::BAD_REQUEST, Json(ErrorResp {
-            error: "InvalidRequest".into(),
-            message: "Caller must be a member".into(),
-        })));
+        members.push(did.clone());
     }
     {
         let db = state.db.lock().unwrap();